Friday, May 20, 2011

On toddlers, little old ladies and Rapture.


This morning we had an appointment at the GP for babygirl's six month vaccinations, and to try and get a referral for our toddler boy. The waiting room had the compulsory (probably not clean and sick kids have been playing with them ick) toys so the boy was happy, until we were called in to see the doctor.
Now I get why being asked to leave a pile of toys and go sit in a small room isn't fun, and he reacted appropriately by getting pretty cranky at me. Good two-year-old fun, but he recovered quickly. Until the doctor pulled out the ear thermometer to check the baby's temperature. Even though the doctor was on the other side of the room and I was telling him over and over it wasn't for him, he lost his everloving mind. He stood in the corner screaming, then progressed to head banging, and finally came to me and curled up on my lap sobbing. It broke my heart to see him so incredibly distressed. Especially since I've been seeing him like that increasingly often, and with greater intensity each time.

Anyway we got the baby sorted (bless her little heart, she barely flinched at the needles and was all smiles again within minutes) and the GP asks me if toddler boy's behaviour was worrying to me. Um, yes? That's why he has an appointment too? In that sense I guess it was well timed as the doctor saw for himself the way T-booger zones out and seems incapable of reacting to me or anyone else until he snaps out of it. He also saw that I was exhausted and asked if he sleeps well. No he does not, he wakes hourly at the moment and has done for a few weeks at least, and these meltdowns happen every few days or more. We. Are. Tired.

Referral sorted with mimimal fuss (from me). Goodo.

So we wander into the treatment room for baby's oral vax, and there's a little old lady sitting in there also. She watched on as toddler boy played with the toys in there and babygirl had a feed and a cuddle before we left.

She left the surgery at the same time as we did, and said to me "Your children are lovely, you're a great Mum."

It was so lovely to hear. Clearly she'd missed the meltdown, and no I didn't point out that if my big two were with me as well she may have been of another opinion altogether.

So, off we went to the shopping centre, me filled with the little old lady love. And behold, another little old lady stopped me! As I was waiting for her to tell me my baby is gorgeous or similar, she pressed a card into my hand and said "Please put this in your pocket. It's not too late for you."


She wandered on her merry way, a pleased smile on her face. Meanwhile, should it not be believe IN the Lord Jesus?

Truly, I had no idea what the Rapture even was until yesterday. Today I've had a no doubt beautifully intentioned old woman want to help save me. Admittedly I found it fairly hilarious at the time, but hey if she is right about the timing then she'll be having the last laugh.

And totally aside from that, should the Rapture occur tomorrow I've had a pretty fabulous life filled with pretty fabulous people. I've been blessed with the most beautiful children imaginable. You couldn't ask much more.

Although I'll be cursing that I ordered a new washer and dryer today, we totally could've gone out for a very posh dinner tonight instead ;)

14 comments:

  1. I feel for you with the tantrums. Completely new to your blog (as you know!) and have just read your post you linked to about your toddler son- I hope you guys can come to a conclusion soon. Hoping it is just a "stage" but also well aware how worrying behaviour like this can be.

    Mine is only 17 months old and I already fear/feel that something might be amiss with him too. What is even more worrying for me is that I know I would have trouble getting any kind of diagnosis or treatment in this country.

    Then I tell myself "no, you are imagining it, this is just what 17 month olds are like" but maybe I am wrong.

    The rapture seems to be completely going over the Japanese people`s heads- in fact I mentioned to my (Japanese) husband this morning that the world may end tomorrow and he looked at me like I was insane. I ate chocolate and drank some wine tonight (luckily Shion, 4.5 month old, 2.5 months corrected (he was premmie), sleeps for 8-10 hours straight before waking up for a feed- so wine is doable!)- so at least I will die happy.

    Let`s hope tomorrow is a better day and that your washer and dryer purchase does not go to waste :D

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  2. Glad you got your referral sorted. Really hope you can get seen quickly.

    As for the rapture, bless her little cotton socks but I don't believe anyone will be getting raptured tonight/tomorrow.

    You know what my beliefs are Kate and the Bible says “But about that day or hour no one knows, not even the angels in heaven, nor the Son, but only the Father." So I think you'll get to play with your new washer and dryer. LOL. What did you end up getting btw?!

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  3. Hi Kate. Thanks for stopping by my blog. I'm all for quick and easy recipes otherwise I'd never get anything done.

    Don't talk to me about toddlers and tantrums. My boy is 4 and is still going through the terrible 2's! LOL

    Anne
    (Domesblissity)

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  4. Feeling for your T boy and for you. Hope you find some answers and some sleep soon. xxx

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  5. Glad the day went the way you wanted and that there were some little extras that were not expected.

    The kindness of strangers often lifts my day.

    jill x

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  6. Lovely old women can just make your day!

    That card doesn't make any sense to me, it's written poorly and yes I agree in not on.

    I hope that if the rapture doesn't happen, people like that lovely old lady (#2) won't be disheartened and still live their lives to the full.

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  7. Poor small boy.. He must be so frightened at the time.. if only he could tell you why. Hoping you find some answers soon! Bless baby girl and her cruisy nature, what a blessing when times are tough!

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  8. Wait... I know what's wrong! You forgot to believe on Jesus.

    That'll learn ya.

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  9. What a lovely babygirl you have, not to be fussy about her needles. I hope the referral gives you some answers as to your toddler boy. You must be exhausted, but he still sounds like a gorgeous little boy.

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  10. So glad you got the referral with very little difficulties. It can be very helpful when our kids display challenging behaviours at the doctors.

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  11. isn't the kindness of strangers just the best when you're not having the best of days? :)

    PS the world is still here, aren't you glad about your washer and dryer now ;)

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  12. For us Aussie the Rapture isn't supposed to happen until about 10.30am Sunday morning - so, about another 10 hours from now...

    WRT no one knowing the time, not even the Angels, that basically means it could still happen when these people say it will because God isn't going to be dictated to with reverse psychology...

    I hope something helpful comes from the referral, it was probably a good thing T lost the plot just when he did, it can be so hard to get professionals to take you seriously and not just write you off as an anxious and overtired mum.

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  13. I think we can be lovely mums even WITH the meltdowns. They don't make us bad Mums. They make us tired, frustrated Mums. But they don't make us bad Mums. Hopefully, they make us empathetic mums.

    Glad you got the referral.

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  14. Well since we are all still here and alive and kicking I can comment.

    That is great you were able to get a referal fairly easily. And I hope the wait into too long in finding a reason for his behaviour.
    Yes meltdowns and lack of sleep is just exhausting.
    And Yay for little old ladies (the nice ones, not really for the ones who think we need saving)

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